Welfare Officers - supporting someone who discloses abuse 

Athletics and running clubs are often more than just places to take part in sport; they are communities where members build friendships, trust and support networks. As a result, a club may be one of the first places where someone feels able to talk about abuse or harmful experiences. 

England Athletics supports the Government's ENOUGH campaign, which aims to help people recognise abusive behaviours, support those affected, and play a role in tackling violence against women and girls. The campaign encourages everyone to see abuse for what it is, listen when someone speaks up, and help create environments where people feel safe to seek support. 

If a member chooses to disclose abuse to you, the way you respond can have a significant impact on how supported they feel and whether they may go on to seek further help in the future. 

Remember three simple principles

• Listen – Give the person time and space to talk, without interrupting, judging or pressing for details. Stay calm and focus on what they are telling you. 
• Believe – Respond with empathy and reassure them that you take what they are saying seriously. Many people fear they will not be believed when they disclose abuse. 
• Support – Ask what they need, respect their choices, and signpost them to specialist support if they want it. You do not need to have all the answers; listening and showing care can make a real difference. 

You don't need to be an expert to help. If someone opens up to you, the most important thing is to listen, believe and support. Remember, you can speak to a member of the England Athletics Welfare and Compliance Team if you need to share your concerns or seek advice via welfare@englandathletics.org 

Important: If a disclosure involves a child under 18, it must ALWAYS be reported in line with your club and UKA safeguarding procedures.